“Promises have been broken. Attempts have failed. Exhaustion has set in.
When your relationship becomes the biggest source of pain, frustration, and stress… it’s easy to shut down, criticize, and fester with callous feelings about each other.
The truth is, this is normal and many couples struggle with unproductive habits and feelings. At the core, you two still love each other.
Under the years of rubble and life’s ups and downs, the initiative to seek out help is a testament of commitment and dedication to your partner. That’s love! Together, we can clean up the mess and give each of you the skills you need, so that you spend your energy connecting, instead of resenting.
Did you catch that? Yes, I said ‘skills’.
Most people don’t even realize that a healthy, happy relationship requires actual skills. After forty years of research we now know exactly what those skills are. But knowing the skills doesn’t really matter unless you can use them in the heat of the moment.
I’m looking forward to understanding what it’s truly like to be you in this relationship. That matters to me. So does helping you get the type of relationship that you long for. Trust me, you’re in the right place. Let’s take the step forward to change and getting you to a place of mutual satisfaction!”
Just skip the Starbucks line, you won’t need it! K’Nya’s energy and enthusiasm are as invigorating as her laugh!
Her earthy personality and sense of humor will put you at ease almost immediately. She has a deep desire to truly know you and understand what you’ve been through. K’Nya will help each of you navigate through your hurts and resentment so you can more easily master the skills needed to restore the peace, harmony, desire, tenderness, and playfulness that’s been missing for too long.
K’Nya also has a keen sensitivity and awareness of the many cultural and childhood influences that play out in adult relationships. She is naturally curious and pays close attention to the small details that end up making the biggest impact. If you’re looking for a therapist who is ready to work (and make it fun), then K’Nya is a great choice!
K’Nya earned a BS in Family and Child Sciences from Florida State University, and an MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Valdosta State University in Georgia. Before coming to the Couples Clinic, her experience included individual and family therapy in Georgia.
To schedule an appointment with K’Nya, please call 630-232-7457.